Optimism

Some events in life usually that you like, create a big impression on your mind. Such events usually lead to conclusions, that if we're not doing anything bad to people.. then why am I going through this. I usually go into a deep thinking mode at times, just to visualize that which part of my behaviour was wrong. I usually ask my near and dear ones to stay away from me at that time, when I actually need them the most. Its due to a fear developed in me- A fear that if I start telling all my thoughts, it'll probably just add into their burden of worries. One usually likes to live a care-free life where you can be just the way you are. You never like being manipulated by others.Yet it seems as though you are. To keep someone happy, we usually undergo changes. Later it seems a though it was all a waste. But when you find out that the people for whom you changed, didn't notice it at all, we go in state of despair. The teen problems that everyone goes through are almost the same, just the situations are different.

I feel that every time you feel low, you should go back and find what was wrong on your part. Not to worry about what the others did. Realizing your mistake without anybody making you do it, is the biggest part that builds up your personality. I have realized that instead of staying away from the people with whom you fight, you should try to talk to them calmly, explaining your part. Be optimistic about every event that happens in your life. It gives you an insight that outside isn't the way you feel it is. Adjust, adapt, and learn to live a contended life where you are not ashamed of your actions. Be bold to accept your mistakes, be ideal to help others realize their mistake. Advice people, do not coax them into following what you feel is right. We should understand that every mind is different, every person has a different perspective. If you don't feel it's right, don't criticize. Respect the ideas of others. It will help you in future when you have to handle people. Make mistakes, but be honest to accept them and be brave to correct them. Remember nobody is perfect, that's why you have to live in harmony where you can cover up each other's mistakes and faults. 

As long as you as an individual... can convince yourself that in order to move forward as best you can you have to be optimistic, you can be described as 'one of the faithful,' one of those people who can say, 'Well, look, something's going to happen! Let's just keep trying. Let's not give up.

-Tom Hanks

-1 May '12